Secret Regrets – If You Could Do One Thing Over, What Would It Be?

I remorse selecting him as a result of he regarded good on paper, after I was so, so in love with you. You and I had been finest associates who occurred to fall in love. Once you would contact me, it despatched chills down my backbone. I by no means felt that with him. It’s been three years, and you continue to usually are not going out with anybody, however I married the man that regarded good on paper — the man who cheated on me, lied to me and is now divorcing me. I remorse that proper now, I could possibly be in your arms and in your love, however am not as a result of I selected a distinct path. I remorse that I couldn’t cease loving you, and that you simply nonetheless hang-out me on daily basis. If solely you’d nonetheless love me after what I did … if solely you possibly can forgive me … — Feminine, 24

4.I remorse friending you on Fb. Now I see your life with out me each time you submit a standing replace. Expertise means by no means having to say goodbye without end. — Feminine, 20

5. I remorse that you simply had been the proper man, my lover and my soul mate. Perhaps when you weren’t so good, this tragedy would have an effect on me much less. I remorse that I’m accountable, as a result of when you by no means drove these 10 miles to come back and apologize for one thing you didn’t do, you by no means would have died that night time. I remorse that I killed a lot potential this world may have used. I like and miss you, child. I’m sorry. — Feminine, 20

6. I remorse nonetheless eager about you 5 years later. I remorse seeing you on the mall after I was 9 months pregnant and feeling like I had failed you one way or the other. Most of all I remorse dreaming about you at night time. It solely makes me really feel like I’m dishonest on my husband and son. JUST GET OUT OF MY HEAD. — Feminine, 22

7. If I had a second probability to do one factor in my life otherwise, I might not have taunted my sister for being fats after we had been youngsters. Now I’m the fats one and he or she’s the thin one. Deep down, I believe that is God’s approach of punishing me.
— Feminine, 26

8. I remorse saying sure while you requested me to marry you. I didn’t wish to damage your emotions. In spite of everything, you’re a poor school pupil who spent $2,000 on a hoop. You say you may’t think about your life with out me, effectively … I can think about mine with out you. I’m sorry I didn’t inform you sooner. — Feminine, 22

9. I remorse telling you I wasn’t pregnant after I actually was. His title was Drake. He’s my angel. — Feminine, 23

10. If I may change one factor, I might have gotten on that aircraft. I might have gone away with you even when it meant shedding my job. I might have gone away with the garments I had on my again as a result of all that may have really mattered was the truth that I used to be with you. The lack of a job doesn’t examine to the ache I really feel proper now, every day, understanding that I’ve misplaced you. — Feminine, 26

11. If I had a second probability to do ONE factor otherwise in my life, I might have chosen to be with you while you requested me to. I couldn’t do it as a result of I used to be too afraid of what my associates would assume. And now, years later, none of them are even in my life anymore, however I nonetheless discuss to and see you on daily basis. Now that it’s approach too late to do something about it, I’m desperately jealous of your girlfriend and I can’t recover from what I virtually, however by no means, had. — Feminine, 22

12. If I had a second probability to do one factor otherwise in my life, I might have been trustworthy with my ex when he requested if I’d met another person. As a result of I had, and I wished you the minute I laid eyes on you, so there was no level in denying it actually. Because it was, he believed we nonetheless had an opportunity and now he received’t converse to me … And the worst half is … if I had to decide on considered one of you to have in my life … it might nonetheless be him. — Feminine, 22

I remorse marrying you. I used to be blinded by the romance and the unexpectedness of our relationship. After which we discovered we had been pregnant, I felt overwhelmed with love, however worry of what others would say about me being an unwed mom. And also you had been deploying to Afghanistan. So we rushed. You left. I grew up, you grew imply. Each telephone name, you yelled at me, you set me down. Once you acquired again to the States, the boys and I had been on the backside of your precedence record. It’s been virtually two months and you continue to haven’t seen us. I’m glad I can see issues so clearly now and I don’t must waste the remainder of my life and the boys’ lives with rigidity, and yelling, and combating. I’ve discovered another person. He has been there for me by every part. He stored me firm when all I wished to do was go to sleep in your arms. He comforted me while you would make me cry after EVERY DAMNED PHONE CALL. He drove me to the hospital after I went into early labor with the boys, and slept on the chilly exhausting hospital flooring all night time and held my shaking palms the subsequent day till my mom may get there. He visited us typically on the hospital, and drove us after we may lastly come house two months later. He loves me. He loves the boys. And slowly and certainly, he has gained my belief, friendship, and love. I select him. Your stuff is ready for you in containers within the kitchen. Name while you wish to come get them. — Feminine, 2014.I might deal with her higher than I did again then. I’m nonetheless fully in love together with her and know now that I may deal with her like a princess. As a result of that’s what she is to me. And nobody will deal with you higher than I can, Kait. That’s a promise. — Feminine, 2215. If I had a second probability, I might return and inform you precisely how I felt after I felt it. It’s too straightforward so that you can brush every part apart now. I want it had been simpler to let you understand how a lot you modified me. For the more severe. — Feminine, 20

16. If I had a second probability, I’d threat extra. I’ve lived a protected, snug life. I’ve a protected, snug house in a protected, snug city. If I had a second probability, I’d go on that journey, take the job distant, run sooner and check out more durable. — Feminine, 29

17. I remorse saying I didn’t just like the ring and I didn’t like the best way you proposed. It was shallow and silly of me. I do know you probably did the perfect you possibly can for me and I used to be nonetheless ungrateful and I’ve all the time felt horrible for it. As a result of now, I want for nothing greater than you to place a hoop on my finger and name me your fiancee once more. — Feminine, age unknown

18. I remorse shedding my virginity in a automobile in an empty car parking zone. Pleased birthday, Will. — Feminine, 22

19. I remorse that I’ve by no means skilled true rip-off-your-clothes, impatient, sizzling ardour in a relationship. I remorse that studying “Twilight” is the closest I’ll ever get to it, due to the way you broken me emotionally. –Feminine, 24

20.I remorse operating from the church the day we had been to be married. I remorse that you simply thought I didn’t love you adequate to spend the remainder of my life with you. It wasn’t that. I used to be simply afraid that our love wouldn’t final and that I’d find yourself like my mom; divorced and alone, coping with melancholy. I remorse that this rejection led to your suicide. I’ll all the time love you. I do know that now. — Feminine, 29